FAQ

What’re your hobbies?

First and foremost, I have an insatiable thirst for knowledge. During the evening, and often even during breaks at work, you’ll find me with my nose in a book.

But while I put much effort into feeding my mind, I don’t neglect my body. I enjoy running, lifting, hot yoga… All told I find myself exercising for five to eight hours a week.

Another priority is food. I love cooking nice meals at home, but I also spend much of my time considering the fine-dining experiences that I’ve had and wish to have in the future. The top restaurant on my current list is noma in Copenhagen.

The rest of my time I fill with family, friends, and pets.

What would be your ideal date?

My perfect date would be a one-week FMTY in Copenhagen, Paris, or Singapore. We’d indulge ourselves with some of the best food in the world, fascinating culture, and our own company. To make it even more dreamy, we’d have a couple’s spa day and a shopping trip thrown in for good measure! All of these delightful experiences would be connected by the commonality of witty banter paired with playful jabs-the quips to be smoothed and soothed with affectionate caresses.

Why don’t you offer shorter dates?

Building a deep connection is important to me. I take care in choosing those I spend my time with, and I'm drawn to men who share this discerning approach. While shorter rendezvous offer quick thrills and fiery moments, they lack the depth needed for genuine connection. Longer dates, however, afford us the chance to explore both intellectually and physically, resulting in a more fulfilling experience for us both!

When should I book?

As they say, there’s no time like the present. I generally only accept two appointments a week, so I tend to book up weeks in advance. I advise planning ahead if your heart is set on a certain date. I also suggest booking far ahead for a selfish reason; I’m a (soft) Type A personality, so you’ll make me extra happy if you help me organize my life by giving me plenty of notice.

That being said, I sometimes accept week-of appointments when the proposed date is interesting enough. And I might even accept a day-of appointment if my schedule permits and I am properly incentivized.

What is involved in a dinner date?

As you may have noticed throughout this section, I’m a big fan of food. Because of my love of food, I also love dinner dates! Four-hour + dates require a public outing for food. If you’d prefer that we order in, please let me know ahead of time and we can discuss details.

What is involved in an overnight?

I love overnights because we can get extremely cozy. That being said, I function markedly better on seven to eight hours of sleep, so we’ll work together to make sure we achieve that goal!

What should I do when I arrive?

When meeting at a hotel- Place your unsealed envelope in plain view when you arrive. If you haven’t showered in the last hour, let’s start off the date by you getting squeaky clean.

When meeting in public- There’s no better way to start off a date than with a big hug! After we greet each other, please provide your envelope in a book, gift bag, or box.

What if I’d like more time than I booked?

I get it-sometimes the chemistry is off the charts and you just don’t want to say goodbye yet. I build my life around the dates as they’re scheduled, so I may not be able to accommodate an in-date extension. If my schedule permits, the date may be extended for $1,000 per hour.

How do you deal with outfit requests?

With sufficient notice, I’m happy to wear items that you purchase off my wishlist. If you’d like me to wear something not on my wishlist, please run the outfit by me prior to purchasing it.

Do you offer duos?

Yes, the more the merrier! I’m happy to join with another companion to give you double the fun. I appreciate it when our gentleman sponsors a drink or meal so the other companion and I can get to know each other before the date!

 What do you require for a FMTY?

I love FMTYs, so I try to make the process as easy for you as possible. I’ll find the flights, book the hotel, and even make suggestions on restaurants we can try. Once I’ve researched the flight and hotel costs, I will let you know the total of those expenses plus my 50% deposit.

You can find out more about my rates for FMTYs and my most-wanted list here!

What is your deposit/cancellation/reschedule policy?

I require a 20% deposit for local dates to add you to my schedule. I understand that circumstances sometimes get in the way- so if you find that you need to reschedule with at least three days’ notice, that 20% deposit will be applied to a date that takes place within 30 days. If you cancel day of, I require 100% payment for the canceled date.

For FMTYs, I require a 50% deposit plus travel expenses. If you must cancel with at least one week's notice, the deposit (but not travel expenses) can be applied to a date to take place within 45 days of the original date. A cancellation within three days requires you to pay my full rate.

 I will refund a deposit less a screening fee if I cancel the appointment because of scheduling conflicts, illness, or other personal reasons. If your conduct before or during the date leads me to cancel the appointment, I will not issue a refund.  

How do you keep me safe?

Your safety is as important to me as my own. Know that I use safe practices with everyone I see. And that safety extends beyond our in-person time. All screening information is securely stored, and I’m happy to discuss any limitations on communication so that there are no issues on the home front.